Complicated adult dating

Chelsea Lachel on October 28, Relationships Remember what it was like 10 years ago? You met someone, you got along, you found them attractive, and well…then you were a couple. Some of the complications have come with age. Look around at the dating pool of somethings. In addition, at least for women, our priorities have shifted with age. At 22, all we wanted was a cute guy who had killer flip-cup skills and would split a bottle of Skoal vodka with us. Now, while we still need to be attracted to a mate, the looks category has taken a back seat to things like stability, ethics, and paternal instincts.

Take me for example, here is one automatic deal-breaker. So as we age, not only has our dating pool suffered a major drought, we have to weed through a mess, searching for someone who meets our qualifications. And how do you weed people out? Why, facebook of course!!! Facebook is in neck-in-neck race with internet dating sites to ruin our lives.

If you have ever been on match. Let me make a little side note that I have witnessed some great relationships come off these sites, but that has not changed my overall perspective. Remember what life was like before google, facebook and match. It came up as Joe Smith: Now, Google, of course, is just the first step in a long line of internet-driven psychotic behaviors. Google is the least of our problems. God forbid you actually have a good date, and you both are on facebook. And when you do take that huge step and add the person as your friend, you have a whole lot of work ahead of you.

Why is his arm around her in that photo? Is he wearing KEDS??? Uhhhhh Facebook is in neck-in-neck race with internet dating sites to ruin our lives.

You know what advice I got most often when I was on these sites was? Obviously because everyone else on that site is doing the same thing. So basically we are all just dating a bunch of people, never giving one person an actual chance; because we are so busy trying to figure out who is best, and if there could be someone better out there in match.

All the members could probably play six degrees of separation and all be linked together somehow. So you are constantly looking to see how often, and the last time they were online. And the worst thing that can happen to you: Luckily I gave up internet dating before it caused me serious permanent mental damage. How do we un-complicate dating?? Obviously social media has taken our lives by storm, affecting everything from corporate marketing to our relationships.

I guess we just have to live and learn how to use these tools to our advantage.


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